Individual & Relational Therapy

Whether you're exploring desire, navigating intimacy, healing trauma, or unpacking long-standing relational patterns, therapy can be a place to reconnect with what feels real and possible. The work I offer focuses on the nervous system, attachment, and the body as we examine the intersections of pleasure, pain, connection, and identity.

This isn’t about “fixing” you; our work is about reclaiming access to what’s been shut down, distorted, or shamed.

 

Relationship Therapy

“I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.” - Irvin D. Yalom

Relational therapy is a space for couples and multi-partner systems to engage with the deep work of intimacy — emotional, erotic, and everything in between.

  • Erotic disconnection and desire mismatch

  • Repair after infidelity or betrayal

  • Emotional distance, conflict patterns, and communication breakdown

  • Exploring kink, BDSM, and/or new sexual territories

  • Shifting relational structures, including polyamory and non-monogamy


    Modalities

    I use an integrative clinical approach grounded in EMDR, Polyvagal Theory, Attachment Theory, and somatic-based practices to help you reconnect with your body, boundaries, desires, and core values.

Individual Therapy

“The erotic does not hurry.” - Osho

Individual therapy offers a space to explore your sexual health, identity, trauma history, and emotional patterns in a way that is grounded, evidence-based, and compassionate.

  • Sexual pain and pelvic health
    Including vaginismus, dyspareunia, vulvodynia, and other forms of genito-pelvic pain

  • Erectile and ejaculatory concerns
    Including performance anxiety, arousal difficulties, and lack of pleasure

  • Perinatal transitions
    Support around fertility, pregnancy loss, postpartum changes, and birth-related trauma

  • Desire, arousal, interest, and sexual identity
    Clarifying your erotic blueprint and reconnecting with embodied sexuality

  • Trauma resolution
    Working with sexual, relational, emotional, psychological, and medical trauma

 

Clinical Supervision and Consultation

AASECT, EMDR, and AAMFT

I am an AASECT Sex Therapist Supervisor, AAMFT Approved Supervisor, and EMDR CIT. I offer clinical supervision to licensed associates and fully licensed providers who are interested in AASECT Certification, EMDR Certification, or state licensure. If you are interested in clinical supervision or EMDR consultation, please fill out the contact me form.

Let’s get connected!

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