“What is the relationship between love and desire? How do they relate, and how do they conflict? …Therein lies the mystery of eroticism.” - Esther Perel

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy

Exposure and Response Prevention Therapy (ERP) for OCD (IOCDF/BTTI Trained)

Polyvagal Theory & Somatic Therapy

Gottman Institute Level 1 Couples Therapy

Wheel of Consent (Betty Martin)

Dr. Mia Fine

Licensed in Washington, Oregon, Hawaii, and Idaho

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Favorite toy turned favorite ride. Awesome weekend at @seattle_erotic art festival 🖤 Image description: Mia straddles a 6 foot art fixture of the magic wand. They wear a black outfit and stiletto heels with spikes. Mia is laughing and looking at th
A common misconception is that Sadism & Masochism are about inflicting and receiving pain. However, for many people an S&M experience is about intense sensation - pain not included. Photography: @avila.pictures Image description: Copper c
My heart is heavy. I’m angry. It’s a hard week to be a human. Below is a list of websites with donation options to support people’s right to choose. Please feel free to share others in the comments, or share your pain if needed. s
The idea that true passion, sex, and intimacy has to be spontaneous is BS. Communication is sexy. Having your needs met is sexy. Seeing a name that excites you in your calendar is SUPER sexy. We have been scheduling opportunities for intimacy since
I’ve spent more energy than I care to admit agonizing over how to thank everyone involved in this PhD process. All of who I am went into this dissertation and therefore people in every part of my life contributed. “Thank you” will n
Pinch me. Last night I received an email that Kim and I won the AASECT Award for Integrative Approaches to Sex Therapy. For those who are unaware, AASECT stands for American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists; it’s
I was reluctant to share this because humility > pride but a good friend reminded me that an achievement like this is the essence of attraction rather than promotion. I completed a PhD in Clinical Sexology and as of today I’m Dr. Mia Fine.
Last night’s @seattle_erotic art event was stellar 🖤 We can’t wait for what SEAF 2022 has in store. Tickets: https://www.seattleerotic.org. Hope to see you there!
We are a collective of comprehensively trained, client-centered, and value-focused therapists who have a sincere interest in helping people improve connection to themselves, their sexuality, and their relationships with others. Our values reflect who
Curious about kink? Looking to expand your knowledge on BDSM? Why not let @planetmidori, as she writes, “take you by the hand (or lead you by the collar if that’s your pleasure) into the thick of it”. #sexybookclub #therapist #edu
Such an awesome weekend teaching ‘Sexual Health Interviewing for Providers’ for @hermanwallacepelvicrehab physical therapists. Students were incredible and the stoke was high! On a regular basis I’m reminded of how much I love this
Instagram vs reality ☀️ #selfcare #vitamind #seggstherapist #goofball #queerdo #lgbtq #diving #getoutside #sunsoutbunsout #snorkel #imonaboat
“The thing that people around you tried to get you to change is a big clue about who you really are. In fact, the thing they wanted to “fix” is likely your superpower. It’s what you’re best at. It’s what you’
What are ways you demonstrate gender expression? Exploring and expressing my gender is often empowering and grounding; there’s privilege in that. For many queer people it can be dangerous as we run the risk of gender-expression based discrimi
#gigglegasm: a quality orgasm that includes giggling to replace the customary screaming or moaning, which is pleasant and does not annoy the neighbors. Art by @zeaink #therapy #sextherapy #comeasyouare #sexualwellness #laughmore #lgbtq #queer #pn
“Many of my people have etched out a space for themselves and found freedom in language around identities. I celebrate and respect that whole heartedly. Most of the identity markers I use, I use out of convenience or I use in ways that make sen
“There are as many opportunities for gender as there are people.” - Dr. Bianca Laureano For trainings, consultation, and supervision with Dr. Bianca, visit biancalaureano.com and anteuppd.com, or visit @latinegrasexologist Art by @zea
“Kink is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege and cool toys.” - Midori 📸 @stevedietgoedde Art by @zeaink #kink #kinkcommunity #latex #lgbtq #queer #empowerment
“When we liberate ourselves from the expectation that we must have all things figured out, we enter a sanctuary of empathy.” -Sonya Renee Taylor Art by @zeaink #lionheartsandluminaries #empowerment #empathy #therapy #therapistsofinsta
Become familiar with the power inside of you so it doesn’t come out sideways. 📸: @erekwest_photo #lionheartsandluminaries #power #knowyourworth #lgbtq #queer #therapy #kinkcommunity